Living Alone. My wife has been in care now for a couple of months and the shock is wearing off....

LadyBronte · 56-60, F

You will find your footing, and your way, in your own time. There is no hurry - no rush to make changes, decisions. There is no set standards to follow or mandatory feelings to feel. It is new territory - for you all. None of you have ever been here before, so be kind...to yourself, and to family, who sometimes might not understand your needs and actions. I am sorry that your wife has been ill for so long and that you weren't able to share advetures or normal home life routines together. Sending prayer that your transition will be a smooth one.

ShenaniganFoodie · 36-40, M

Dog = to much work for 70+

NOW,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

Do you miss doing things together ??????

IT DOES NOT need to be romantic,,,,,,,,,,,,,, Just friendship ??????

I lost my Dad 2 years ago ( 93 ) I got my Mum on a cruise, 14 days ( first time ) 89.

She made heaps of friends & loved being around others the same age.

The best for Seniors

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meggie · F

You do sound positive and know what's best for you. Takes a while to adjust though, but life can still be enjoyed and you can try new things.

fanuc2013 · 51-55, F

Try volunteering at an organization near you. I know a lot of widows/ widowers that really enjoy this kind of work, and it is very fulfilling.

robingoodfellow · M

I'm sorry to hear about your wife and I hope you can adjust easily to the new routine, the new normal.

Rickichickie · 56-60, F

That sounds like a challenge and it needs time to get used to the new situation.
Do you miss your wife or can you cope with being alone? It sounds like you're ok with it.

Notsimilarreally · 31-35, F

I just got a little shih poo, he is potty pad trained! No walks! A breed to consider.

Good luck finding your routine, and to your wife 🌼

FreddieUK · 70-79, M

Sounds like you've got good family support and are thinking things through carefully before acting. Wise to take things cautiously and working through the implications before deciding.

swirlie

When eventually getting around to choosing the perfect rescue dog for companionship, this is what I recommend....

One has to remain flexible at all times should any unexpected opportunities cross our path without having to worry about `ol Fido getting fed back home.

Musicman · 61-69, M

God bless you 🙏🙏🙏 I am fastly approaching that time myself. My wife refuses to do anything for herself. She is losing her muscles rapidly. I am fine at the moment, but sooner than later I won't be able to take care of her any longer. When that time comes I'll have to make arrangements for her. ☹

being · 36-40, F

Why don't you remove your mask for starters... now that none is around... 👉🏼😷👈🏼

Pretzel · 70-79, M

make your changes showly - and don't be afraid to shift course!