How do you set your boundaries ? What do y'all think I should do ?

Umile · 2024-12-08T07:44:46-05:00

Self Acceptance - How do you set your boundaries ? What do y'all think I should do ? (Quote) Today was a big... (14 replies).

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Go straight to HR

Level with each one then go to HR IF it can't be resolved.

Two weeks notice

Quit

Stay and make their life HELL

Erase them from your mind. Hustle each day and go home in peace. ✌

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The only people who get upset about you having boundaries are the ones who benefited from you having none.

Today was a big awakening.

I saw clearly who was for or against me.

I'm actually very proud of myself.

I handled it well.

Groundwork now.

🙂

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4meAndyou · F

You need documentation. If and when you go to HR with your complaints, you have to back up your words with proof.

Umile · 41-45, F

@4meAndyou Lucky I write down everything.

4meAndyou · F

@Umile Yes...but that is still YOUR word against theirs. You need to record spoken words. Buy one of those little pocket pens that is also a tape recorder.

When my son was first promoted, I bought one for him, because there is a lot of back stabbing in upper management. I don't know if he ever had to use it.

https://www.spyguy.com/products/voice-activated-recorder-pen

Umile · 41-45, F

@4meAndyou Truth.

Smart.

Well, it is what it is.

I'm ready for it.