Are there any women out there that would accept a man who has a feminine side and enjoys wearing womens clothes , any women in the St.louis Mo. area that would date a feminine man
@ShellSeeker so you like a manly man not a man with a feminine side, here's my conundrum with your answer a man with a feminine side can also be very masculine too or genderfluid as it is called so could you still like a man like that.
@ShellSeeker I dont always wear heels , and I don't have a shelf of action figures and I don't think money is everything , Im not sure where you came up with all that maybe you've dated guys like that before but thats not me I just have a feminine side and wear dresses tights and heels and occasionally nailpolish and lipstick
For me, femininity has nothing to do with external trappings.
But personality traits that many regard as "feminine" are immensely attractive in a man: articulate, and having empathy, emotional and social intelligence, creativity and sensuality. I also value intellect, culture, love of nature and animals, honesty, responsibility and good health. Compared to these, appearances takes a back seat.
@hartfire so you would still give him a chance and get to know him right. I like that answer I also have alot of the qualities/traits you listed I'm very emotionally sensitive , honest , I love nature and animals , I'm respectful , Im empathetic and compassionate , read my about me page and you can see alot about me .
@Muthafukajones thank you honey , your right , that's they way I feel , if I tell them from the get go and they accept me then I'll know that I can respect her and she can respect me.
There would certainly be a conflict between my notion (or sentiment?) of what defines "masculinity", and that sort of outward appearance. I like men who can teach me something, and if I liked him, I would accept that, smilingly. Just as I accepted a man's foot fetishism, in the past.
A young man showed up to work yesterday wearing a ladies pleated brown skirt, pink frilly socks, men's sandals and a men's striped pink and white shirt. He does have a long term girlfriend so if she knows about it doesn't mind.