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Do you love yourself?

Why or why not?
GLITTER · 36-40, F
I do 💖 cuz I’m fucking awesome 😎
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atlantic59 · 61-69, M
@GLITTER You absolutely must be! Right On!💖💖
summersong · F
Yeah, even though I piss myself off sometimes. I’m a good person with a good heart and I try to put positive things into the world. When I fail I am able to admit it and apologize. And I’m my favorite person to hang out with.
Thexboxoneguy1991 · 31-35, M
@summersong yeah i piss myself off too sometimes
mrh1972 · MVIP
No and this is why
mrh1972 · MVIP
@SW-User im sorry for your loss
SW-User
@mrh1972 Thank you. My point was you are no less worthy of love. That's all. :)
@mrh1972 😡 Take your words back and brainwash that reason. You breathe, you eat and you are living a normal life like many.
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
Yea...
I always did but I didn't really understand to what extent.
I lost my way for a bit and put someone above myself.
I actually started to dislike myself...
But I realise even if I'm weird. I'm content and like myself enough to not care what others think. (well not enough to not want to be me)
That's love.
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@SW-User I'm glad you came to the realisation.
I started to look at my life and realised I had spent more time thinking and caring about someone else and their needs whilst all of mine were being neglected.
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Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@SW-User if its not a child or a vulnerable relative or pet it's not my responsibility
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SW-User
@Stereoguy I truly believe that sometimes, it takes another person's love to show us we are worth it. I never agreed with having to love yourself or no one else would.
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atlantic59 · 61-69, M
@SW-User age old truth!
Yes I do love myself.
I am sexy.good looking
I am a very hot crossdresser with a great fem ass.
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MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@lovebeingasissy How do you get smooth skin like that? Even if I shave I'm gonna have bumps
Many years of shaving and using lots of lotions@MartinTheFirst
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ABCDEF7 · M
If you can't love yourself, how you would be able to love others.
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Isthisit · F
@SW-User I love you!
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meJess · F
Some nights 😊
Sweetpoison · 36-40, F
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SW-User
I am learning to and the more I learn, the more I love myself.
Why did I not before? Because there was always a belief that I am not enough, that there was something wrong with me.
Why do I do now? Because those beliefs were not mine. And I am learning to let go of those and bring my own beliefs and it is healing me slowly.
Rokasu · 36-40, M
@SW-User Dang don’t act like you ain’t watching the new season of Dragon Buttz Super.
SW-User
@Rokasu You know...I've never watched anime. And I know, to you youngins it is such a disaster and unheard of thing but yeah. 😂 Maybe I have an advantage because I was always anime cleansed.
Rokasu · 36-40, M
@SW-User Dang you sounding kinda like a buttmunch right now. Us real peeps gotta live and breath anime then realize its actual buttcheeks. The real struggle out here.
GeorgeTBH · 31-35, M
🤷‍♂️ my right hand sure does 🤣🤣
GeorgeTBH · 31-35, M
@atlantic59 nope i haven't that i can think of
atlantic59 · 61-69, M
@GeorgeTBH 'Stranger Danger'🤣
GeorgeTBH · 31-35, M
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SW-User
Excellent question. Of course you're asking yourself this very question. And the answer has to be, it must be, a resounding NO.

Now what?
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@Isthisit You can, the question is how
SW-User
@Isthisit Why do I want to hold you in my arms and protect you from all that hurts? I'm speaking from my heart not my brain (which would warn me to shut the hell up!).
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Eh.. it's complicated 😅
Isthisit · F
@ChiefWalksWith40oz I hear you
helenS · 36-40, F
I can't relate to the prase "I do/don't love myself" in any way. What does it even mean to "love" oneself??
My place in this world is like that of an eye in its visual field. The eye doesn't see itself.
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@helenS Do you want what is best for yourself? Such as a nice partner, a nice home, a place of work where you're respected. Do you think you can do good things, and do you act it out? Do you treat yourself to things you enjoy? Do you work on improving yourself? Are you comfortable in your own company?

If the answer to most of these questions are yes then you're likely to love yourself, in my opinion.
helenS · 36-40, F
@MartinTheFirst I hope I want what is best for others. My family, my friends, my country. Yes I work on improving myself, in that context.
Gangstress · 41-45, F
Yes. Because I'm ok
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AngelKrish · 26-30, M
Sometimes i do ... sometimes i don't...
I did many mistakes in my life.... Lost opportunities because of my stupid instincts....lol
I am not controlled person...
well i never hurt anyone...!
Often ... Usually before I fall asleep 😂

But Yes .... I actually do!

Makes life easier not hating someone that you're Always (24/7) With!
atlantic59 · 61-69, M
@KneAuxBody nothing like rocking yourself to sleep😄
@atlantic59 Actually, many things are better ....
It's having those things available that is generally an issue.
Cydas123 · 46-50, M
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Nope, definitely not!

The self hate is very real and not to be joked about.
Isthisit · F
@Tinkles I understand
NewBeginnings7790 · 41-45, F
No, not sure I’ll ever truly love myself. But I am learning to hate myself less.
Viper · M
Can't say that I do...

I always struggle to fit in, make and keep friends...
Isthisit · F
@Viper I can relate
thepreposterouspanda · 36-40, M
Nah. I've spent my entire life wishing I was different or better somehow.
Reject · 26-30, M
I do, because that is the only way I can love others properly.
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popmol · 22-25, M
love this thing? nay!
popmol · 22-25, M
@atlantic59 stroking? i don't might my head being petted but that doesn't change that i hate my very being!
atlantic59 · 61-69, M
@popmol ok, so there are other deeper issues. Have you sought professional help? I'm sorry for how you feel.
popmol · 22-25, M
@atlantic59 yes. clearly doesn't help.
WhateverWorks · 36-40
I didn’t for a long time, but I learned to
Isthisit · F
@WhateverWorks How did you learn to?
WhateverWorks · 36-40
Working on my weak points, developing my strengths, getting my life in alignment with my vale’s and goals, and kicking everyone who treated me badly or was draining/problematic to the curb. Lots of being gentle with my mental health. @Isthisit
Ofcourse!
If not me, then none would. Charity begins from within self.
snofan · M
I'm fine with me, and don't care what anyone else thinks
Unlearn · 41-45, M
I am not sure if I love myself...but I am comfortable with myself.
Not overly but my self esteem is healthy..I’m happy with me.
ChipmunkErnie · 70-79, M
Well, if you want it done right, do it yourself?
antonioioio · 70-79, M
It's something I never thought about 🙂
hunkalove · 61-69, M
If i had my choice I wouldn't go anywhere near me.
Torsten · 36-40, M
haha no, I am not ready for that type of commitment
I don’t love myself but I respect myself.
UnderTheBridge · 46-50, M
I don't don't love myself.
Isthisit · F
@UnderTheBridge why not?:(
reubles · 41-45, M
I love myself, I hate my situation
Lostlostlost · 51-55, M
There is nothing to love
Isthisit · F
@Lostlostlost Im sure there is plenty to love
romell · 51-55, M
If you don't nobody else will
Lilymoon · F
it's a love/hate relationship
Rokasu · 36-40, M
Probably too much honestly.
SW-User
I'm indifferent
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@SW-User It's time to change that girl, it's time to learn to love yourself
Lostpoet · M
I did for about a second years ago
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
No, I hate this body.
Whodunnit · M
Neither really... I just am
Ducky · 31-35, F
Nope. Because reasons.
Jeephikelove · 46-50, F
Yes, most of time.
Japrost · 41-45, M

 
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