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I don' think I'm capable of doing any jobs,

My confidence was destroy when I use to work with a bigot.
Bri89 · 31-35, M
You shouldn't let someone else's opinion of you taint your self-esteem. One person's opinion about you does not define you as an individual. For that one person who is narrow-minded, there are hundreds of others who will raise you up and tell you that you can do anything.

So, please don't have that mindset as it is only a self-defeatist type mindset.
Beautyisamonstrosity · 31-35, M
@Bri89 To late my low esteem can't go up. Plus my dad put a lot of negativity in me. Now I second guess myself a lot. My math skills diminish I was so fast now I'm even sure about doing math again. I get nervous doing things.
Beautyisamonstrosity · 31-35, M
@Bri89 That guy I used to work was a perfectionist a white devil.
smiler2012 · 56-60
{@beautyisamonstrosity ] sorry to hear that this not aacceptable in the workplace . i am sorry that it has destroyed any confidence you had in your abilities . thankfully people like that are few and far between so do not let an bigot like that blow what you have to give in the work place
Beautyisamonstrosity · 31-35, M
@smiler2012 to late
smiler2012 · 56-60
@Beautyisamonstrosity really so sorry to hear that. i do not what you went through but by what you are doing they are the winners they have made there point absolutely wrong as it is. have a think about it i am sure you can give your confidence time to reload
Beautyisamonstrosity · 31-35, M
@smiler2012 I use to be fast at math and it was my subject of interest but I always dwelt with insecurities. I got rejected from an academy when I was young.Lost interest in school at young age. During middle school there was revival a interest in school lost it to my insecurities. In highschool I dwell with my insecurities and no psychologist from school ever talked to me. But, my speed for math was always their but I never push my prowess to the limit. I never put my educational prowess to the limit either. I avoid customer services jobs or anything like that because I have an accent and my insecurities come out. I worked with a white devil perfectionist and he destroyed my confidence now I second guess myself a lot I get nervous doing math now. I was faster than him in math but now I have become slower.
SW-User
Fuq em ... prove to yourself that you can do a job anyway ...it's OK to feel the way you feel..just don't give up on yourself because of one person ...
why, if i may ask?

 
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