She told me not to get my hopes up

I was stupid to get carried away yesterday, and should know by now that it's pretty much not possible for women to be interested in me. But I'm happy to just be friends, because I quite like hanging out with her. At least I know for sure now.

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Incomplet · 18-21 Best Comment

[quote]She told me not to get my hopes up[/quote]
Simply means, "I kissed 😗 you because I like you, but now I'm scared 😟 that I did that too soon and you might try something I'm not ready for yet! 🫣 So this might slow things a bit."

She's seeming to be as confused as you are.
Just KEEP Dating and Enjoying the Time Together,
because it Beats being ALONE.
And it makes you Both Happy.

Next Date, Volunteer Together to Help with the Flood Cleanup of someone's home or hand out food and supplies.
Things like that Need extra people.

Scribbles · 36-40, F

That's not a rejection statement, btw.
It just means that maybe she's happy with where things are, and wants you to meet her where she is at, and is maybe worried you feel more for her than what she feels for you right now. That's normal in a relationship when it starts off. People have varying degrees of desire or interest in the other. The important thing is to respect each other, talk and communicate.

Just keep being you, enjoy time together, and don't push her for more than she wants to give, and it'll be fine.

🤗

Incomplet · 18-21

@Scribbles Perfectly put. [quote]People have varying degrees of desire or interest in the other. The important thing is to respect each other, talk and communicate.[/quote]

KiwiDan · 31-35, M

@Scribbles My plan is just to see where things go.

Incomplet · 18-21

@KiwiDan 💋 That's it big brother! 👍🏻

Incomplet · 18-21

I'm quite interested in you Big Gentleman Dan !
I'd love to meet you and hang out and Kiss You Goodnight !
You're an excellent friend.

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KiwiDan · 31-35, M

@Incomplet I'd like that :)

TeirdalinFirefall · 31-35, M

Yay for kiwidan

Incomplet · 18-21

@KiwiDan OKAY you're now [c=002673]My Big Brother Dan
[/c]
Message me any time about ANYTHING about girls/women/ladies and I will be tickled and feel privileged to help you!

TrumpIsFinallyGone · 41-45, M

You should create a dating site just for nerds. JustForNerds.com. Where you can set-up forums for Warhammer and Pathfinder, etc and connect with people through there. I think you would do well there Dan.

KiwiDan · 31-35, M

@TrumpIsFinallyGone Knowing me, I'd probably still manage to get rejected pretty much every time XD

TeirdalinFirefall · 31-35, M

I'd totally join that.

Riemann · 31-35, M

If you don't have any health issues, start working out and don't stop.
I hope this helps.

Emjay · 18-21, F

Blame it on the burrito.

KiwiDan · 31-35, M

@Emjay Probably. But I'm generally unloveable

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