my boyfriend was honest to me.

He told me he had a feeling or lust for this girl while they were away for a week with church members. He said nothing happened because everytime, there seems to be stopping it. I asked him what if nothing stopped it? Well, i guess they'll DO it. Should i trust him? He said, he made a mistake to be weak by that time and that he loves me.because a feeling with lust is not love, and that's what he had with that girl. Should i trust him?

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I'm with itsprincess. The fact he's telling you as much makes me suspicious.

I think full trust is a fairy tale. In my 15 years of marriage, I can answer my wife that I have never physically, photographically, or sextually cheated on my wife. But if she would ask if I emotionally cheated on her... I would have to admit it. And I could probably never stop.