my boyfriend was honest to me.

He told me he had a feeling or lust for this girl while they were away for a week with church members. He said nothing happened because everytime, there seems to be stopping it. I asked him what if nothing stopped it? Well, i guess they'll DO it. Should i trust him? He said, he made a mistake to be weak by that time and that he loves me.because a feeling with lust is not love, and that's what he had with that girl. Should i trust him?

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Northwest · M

What kind of church is this? Temptation is out there 24/7. I suspect that he told you, because he feels "religious" guilt, with the whole lust thing. 40 years ago, Jimmy Carter, the candidate for presidency of the US, told an interviewer (Playboy Magazine, when it actually did reasonable journalistic work), that he had felt lust in his heart.

On the worrying scale, I would put his Church higher than hormones.