Is it tacky to tell guests to bring food/refreshments to a baby shower? Normally, guests bring gifts.

P.S.: I'm not the hostess, nor am I close to the mother-to-be. Just wondering because, every culture is different. Do the same etiquette rules still apply? Currently find myself in this scenario.

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bijouxbroussard · F

Sounds like a "pot luck". That is unusual for a baby shower.

DiamondPrincess89 · 31-35, F

@bijouxbroussard: Well, the invitation never stated "potluck" in the first place. Just a gift registry and "bring yourself out as we celebrate".

bijouxbroussard · F

@DiamondPrincess89: In that case, it sounds pretty shabbily arranged. Generally, snacks are provided by the host, anyway. They can't afford that, they really can't afford to do this.