Was it wrong of me to stop talking to my friend?

I am not going to go in full detail but I did feel that he didn't want to talk to me. Like I would bring up things I wanted to discuss that were important to me but he would totally ignore them. He would also message me back like months later and this pissed me off a lot because for about 3 months straight, we would talk every single day. And after he got bores of me, he would hardly talk to me anymore like he used to. I could feel that I bored him. He became so distant and since he lives in the other side of the world, I would stay up really late just waiting to see if he would respond back. I deleted all my social media that he followed me in and its been like 2 months since I did that and he hasn't even tried to contact me (he still has my email). Was it wrong of me to do that, should I apologize?

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ajoite · 51-55, F

Honestly? You had expectations of him that he couldn't or wouldn't fill.
Sometimes we have to accept people as they are or move on. We can't make people into what we want from them, staying up all night is a little bit obsessive.

PaulMcCartney · 26-30, F

Thanks! And I guess I did kind of made it seem kind of obsessive but he was the only friend I had to talk to and he would always tell me goodnight so I would know our conversation was going to end and he just stopped doing that.