If someone says that they love you....

If someone says that they love you...doesn't that mean that they love all of you? Someone in particular always say that they love me but seem to criticize me for the things that I do and enjoy :/ so from what it seems like the person loves me for the things that they only accept or find to be right in their eyes.I find this to be extremely toxic because I would be damned if I stop doing what I enjoy to please the next person because they think it is unacceptable. -_- Anyone ever experience this?

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SW-User

Maybe the person wants to do it but they have anxiety.

Maybe what you're doing is toxic.

OpalFlower · 31-35, F

I doubt that they want to get piercings and tattoos since they follow the hardcore Christian life lol. If getting pierced and tattooed are toxic then good thing I am not forcing people to get them done but leave it up to them to make their own choice ;)