If someone says that they love you....

If someone says that they love you...doesn't that mean that they love all of you? Someone in particular always say that they love me but seem to criticize me for the things that I do and enjoy :/ so from what it seems like the person loves me for the things that they only accept or find to be right in their eyes.I find this to be extremely toxic because I would be damned if I stop doing what I enjoy to please the next person because they think it is unacceptable. -_- Anyone ever experience this?