What bothers you the most on 'Ageing' and getting older?

I find I am more and more forgetful. I often type and send words I don't mean. Not to hurt others but these thoughts, these words just seem to come out in ways I cannot control. I need to know I am not alone. And no, I don't crave to be in a crowd. Merely cannot find the correct words to say what I truly feel. So perhaps it is merely a need to have others agree no matter what I speak? I think my Mom was the same way. Just wish there was a means too stop this. To prevent my words that hurt others.