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Help me pleaseee

My gym bro asked me out and idk how to let him down easy HELP ME he was rlly nice and i dont wanna sound rude or anything 😭 but also he literally just recently broke up with his gf so that’s um…
Ashly · 26-30, F
It’s best to be straight forward,
Tell him that you’re flattered, but that because he just broke up with his gf. He’s not in his best emotional state and that he needs time to heal 💔
raspblossom · 22-25, F
@Ashly He doesnt know I know about that tho 😭
Ashly · 26-30, F
@raspblossom oh….
What if you just tell him that you’re not looking to get into a relationship at the moment. Too much going on in your life maybe?
Quetzalcoatlus · 46-50, M
Tell him you’re not into him like that.
Quetzalcoatlus · 46-50, M
@raspblossom you have to be OK with making him upset. There’s no other way.
raspblossom · 22-25, F
@Nayla Good idea!! thank youu
raspblossom · 22-25, F
@Quetzalcoatlus Youre right!
assemblingaknob · 26-30, F
Yeah. Not a good idea to date someone who just broke up. They are trying to avoid processing the grief. Which is unhealthy.
raspblossom · 22-25, F
@assemblingaknob exactly! plus i dont like him lile that
Jessmari · 41-45
Thing is that how he feels about your answer is on him and out of your hands. Dragging it out will just make things more uncomfortable.
raspblossom · 22-25, F
@Jessmari That’s trueee, i’ll just say i can’t
Houdini · 56-60, M
Just tell him straight your friend and you like him that way but that’s as far as it goes
raspblossom · 22-25, F
@Houdini Okay! Thank youu
eMortal · M
For what good is life if you don’t have adventures!? Go out with him.
raspblossom · 22-25, F
@eMortal Absolutely not i dont like him lile that 😭
scorpio611 · 41-45, M
Just tell him he aint' your type.
Tell him you're a lesbian 😋 jk

Or thank you, I'm glad you asked, but now is not a good time. (Then I prefer not to talk about it when he asks why)

Or thank you, but I want to be single right now.


Or... bro, do you even lift? 🤪
iwishuwerehere · 61-69, M
Just tell him what you said here. Tell him he’s really nice & you don’t want to ruin it.
mainvane · 61-69, M
go for it
Would it be a problem if it was casual? Do you know his intentions are not?
raspblossom · 22-25, F
@ImperialAerosolKidFromEP I dunno his intentions
@raspblossom then I'd say with so many unknowns, there's no need to sweat it. If you aren't going to send mix signals and he's not going to make up mixed signals, you should do what comes naturally. But since you are sweating it, maybe what's natural is you turning him down. 🤷‍♂️

 
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