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I Just Really Am Looking For Some Sort Of Advice...

Okay, I am trying again because my last post didn't really get seen and I am running out of time to act.
To try to make this a little quicker there's this guy who I have been head over heals for for months now. Obviously there are only a few days left of school and I don't know what to do. I want to tell him on the very last day of school that I like him but I don't want to look stupid. (I have more backstory on my previous post about the whole situation) but anyways I have a slight feeling he might like me back but I am not positive. My friends all think I have a shot but I just don't know. I have never done anything like this before and I don't know what to say or when to say it. I share a class with him and I don't really want to catch him after class and tell him I like him and him be with his friend(s). I just don't know. I also don't want to miss an opportunity like this just in case he does feel the same way. I also don't know how fast the word would get spread if he rejects me. Next year would be a living hell for me.
I just please would really like some advice. Any. If you need me to answer any questions about the situation to give anyone a clearer picture I can. I am a pretty fast responder. And I know this rant isn't really the most important, at least not like other peoples situations on this, but I- this is been bugging me so incredibly bad. Please help.
Why not just ask him out for a cup of coffee? Confessing that you “like him” or are “head over heels for him” right out of the gate just seems awkward, especially if you don’t interact with him much.

Friendship first, and take your time. Who knows, you might find out he’s a total bag of dicks. And for the love of god, stop worrying about what everybody else will think. Honesty, nobody gives a fuck about your dating drama… they only care about themselves. That might sound cold and mean, but it’s the truth.

Good luck 🍀
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hippyjoe1955 · 61-69, M
If he is not interested in you then don't chase him. You will be the one that gets hurt. He doesn't care.
FerrousSneeze · 16-17, F
@hippyjoe1955 That's the thing though... I think there is a super good chance that he does like me.
hippyjoe1955 · 61-69, M
@FerrousSneeze Then get him to chase you.
Like, omigod! You should totally get Michelle to tell Shawna to tell Xander to tell him you like, like-like him!
FerrousSneeze · 16-17, F
@LordShadowfire Huh? I am so confused lol. As in I should have someone else tell him I like him?
@FerrousSneeze I'm imitating high school kids talking about high school level drama. Either tell him directly or don't do anything. Anything else is just drama.
FerrousSneeze · 16-17, F
@LordShadowfire Ohhh gotcha. Yeah I suppose.

 
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