Going through the hardest time of my life...

Where to begin? I think what I'm going through right is the hardest thing a human can go through which is seeing someone you love terminally ill and not knowing if today will be his last day. There is a lot pain, lots of suffering, lots of anger and constant panic and anxiety attacks. How can someone get through this? It just feels unbearable. If you had gone through this or are going through this, please, write some advise or share some wisdom.

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elafina · 36-40, F

You know the carer needs care ?
Just as the sick person needs someone to care for them, the person who cares for them need another person to care for them.
Do you have any person in your life doing that for you ? It's much needed....
Music helps, time in the mirror preparing yourself helps (self care, and at the same time putting on some sort of armour, or imagining some colored light around you or whatever is that suits you, maybe wearing a protective stone, any thing that might appear silly that can give you this little extra strength is good), treats and healthy juices, showers, often breaks. Call anyone you can call .. hugs, It's tough... 🤗