advice is appreciated…

hey. i am a female in highschool. my friends are all starting to become sexually active and i feel a little left out and insecure. insecure that i haven’t had sex yet but also insecure about my body and i’m scared that the other person won’t like how i look. there’s a lot of things stopping me..

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caccoon · 36-40

You are too young to be here. Don't fall predator to creepy men. Don't reply to PMs. Anything supportive can be said publicly.

I would encourage you to talk to your doctor if you have one, or call a helpline to speak to someone. Perhaps your highschool might have a counselor?

I'm sorry to be blunt, but it's unsafe here

yourfayet · 18-21, F

@caccoon thank you i didn’t know, i basically searched up “venting websites” and the first post i saw was also someone my age

Elizabeth28 · TVIP

@caccoon true

Elizabeth28 · TVIP

@yourfayet be safe on here and youll be fine but yes dont show to much hunn and if you insecure go talk to a doctor and your parent hun some one you trust hun

caccoon · 36-40

@yourfayet I understand. 💙 There are a lot of predatory men here.

I'm not sure what country you're in, but if you call your local hospital even they might have some leads for you. I know it's harder to say it than it is to type.

But another thing, there's nothing wrong with waiting to have sex. I never had it until I was much older and I am fine with that. When I was younger I wanted nothing to do with it.

Elizabeth28 · TVIP

@caccoon not every one is bad on here but safe side yes

yourfayet · 18-21, F

@caccoon thank you so much.