Should i leave my boyfriend?..

If you saw my other posts,
I did confront him about it but
All he just said it was nobody..
Right front of me he deleted her
But right now the relationship is getting worse
He keeps making jokes about cheating on me.
Last night we were watching tiktok videos together, there was a video about this guy cheating on his girlfriend and my boyfriend made a joke about cheating on me.. i got mad at him about it but he apologized..
I was still mad that he made a joke about it so he got mad that i was still mad about it so he slept on the couch.. he didnt wanna sleep on the bed with me but this morning i was asking him why he didnt sleep on the bed.. he started getting mad saying i should say sorry for making him mad and making him sleep on the couch then he said that im making a huge deal out of it.. it lead to a huge argument
To the point where he made me cried but he still kept getting mad at me even more saying i dont care about his feelings..he also said that im toxic for not caring about him enough
He kept saying i dont love him even tho i did everything for him.
I quit my job for him,
I left my family for him,
I help around the apartment alot..
I need advice what to do..
Am i in the wrong here?
[I did apologize to him but he still got mad at me]
Im only 20 years old
He's 25 years old

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Xicsukin · M

Hold on you dropped everything for this guy and he still wants more? I feel as though no matter what you do it just won't be enough. I'm saying this cus I did the exact same thing for my partner and she was never has egregious as your partner is being.

You need to sit back and think from another person's perspective, if you were seeing all that's happening to sombody else could justify their actions? From what you're describing to me this is mental abuse and manipulation and all you have said are red flags.

You don't apologize then get mad at the person about making you mad, they're trying to make you the bad person so you cave to their madness. It's like when a man beats a woman and his response is "look what you made me doo, how could you make me so mad, apologies"

I strongly recommend taking some time away, go back to your family by yourself, say you need the space to thing and have a temporary break. His actions will definitely help determin the course of action you need to take.

If your feeling threatened or even a bad instinct, listen to your guts. If you have friends or family who can help you move the ln ask for their help. And I would 100% voice record the conversation between you two incase anything bad happens, it's better to cover all your bases.