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Xicsukin · M
Hold on you dropped everything for this guy and he still wants more? I feel as though no matter what you do it just won't be enough. I'm saying this cus I did the exact same thing for my partner and she was never has egregious as your partner is being.
You need to sit back and think from another person's perspective, if you were seeing all that's happening to sombody else could justify their actions? From what you're describing to me this is mental abuse and manipulation and all you have said are red flags.
You don't apologize then get mad at the person about making you mad, they're trying to make you the bad person so you cave to their madness. It's like when a man beats a woman and his response is "look what you made me doo, how could you make me so mad, apologies"
I strongly recommend taking some time away, go back to your family by yourself, say you need the space to thing and have a temporary break. His actions will definitely help determin the course of action you need to take.
If your feeling threatened or even a bad instinct, listen to your guts. If you have friends or family who can help you move the ln ask for their help. And I would 100% voice record the conversation between you two incase anything bad happens, it's better to cover all your bases.
You need to sit back and think from another person's perspective, if you were seeing all that's happening to sombody else could justify their actions? From what you're describing to me this is mental abuse and manipulation and all you have said are red flags.
You don't apologize then get mad at the person about making you mad, they're trying to make you the bad person so you cave to their madness. It's like when a man beats a woman and his response is "look what you made me doo, how could you make me so mad, apologies"
I strongly recommend taking some time away, go back to your family by yourself, say you need the space to thing and have a temporary break. His actions will definitely help determin the course of action you need to take.
If your feeling threatened or even a bad instinct, listen to your guts. If you have friends or family who can help you move the ln ask for their help. And I would 100% voice record the conversation between you two incase anything bad happens, it's better to cover all your bases.
Mktonght · 61-69, M
Someone who obviously does not give you respect nor is able to just be open and honest with you certainly doesn't deserve you.
So many women get tracked in situations that in effect are abuse (emotional abuse is as bad as physical)
The problem is your self respect and everything points to him cheating already with the "secret" phone calls.
For him to demand you kowtowing to his many demands is an issue that will lead eventually to physical abuse as well in most situations.
This is not a relationship, it seems to be a hell on earth relationship.
So many women get tracked in situations that in effect are abuse (emotional abuse is as bad as physical)
The problem is your self respect and everything points to him cheating already with the "secret" phone calls.
For him to demand you kowtowing to his many demands is an issue that will lead eventually to physical abuse as well in most situations.
This is not a relationship, it seems to be a hell on earth relationship.
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black4white · 56-60, M
time to move on and say bye bye.... just know this... your history is not changing and its only getting worse... that that the life you want to live?
If yes... then stay and know what you are in store for
If no ... then you already know what needs to be done and it is called leaving him
Good luck and make the decision for you and your own well being
If yes... then stay and know what you are in store for
If no ... then you already know what needs to be done and it is called leaving him
Good luck and make the decision for you and your own well being
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Heavenlywarrior · 36-40, M
Yeah save time…. Leave. You will find someone else . It’s already toxic from what I can see. You already loss your self worth by dropping family…and quiting your job. Where’s your identity??? Oh… he is your identity and your strength… you need to change that or you’ll be looking back at this couple years later in a worse condition.
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dale74 · M
Cheaters don't stop and if he has that much disrespect for you you're never going to have a loving caring relationship he can either keep getting emotionally distraught possibly even making children with this man that you'll never be happy with or you can cut your losses and move on but everyone has a choice to make good luck
DHggmu · 31-35, M
I said on your other post there’s a lot of red flags and he sounds controlling. Now there’s a lot more red flags and that means get out before it gets even worse.
SarithBorn · 18-21, M
The question is if we all said u should would you? 🤔
Blackberry1 · 16-17
LEAVE HIM BESTIEE
caccoon · 36-40
Can you go back to your family? I really think this relationship seems like trouble for you 💙
Stay safe 💙 you don't even have to break up with him, but not living together is good. Get some distance between you and give yourself time to think. Talk with someone close about it, make sure you feel supported and are honest with those that love you
Stay safe 💙 you don't even have to break up with him, but not living together is good. Get some distance between you and give yourself time to think. Talk with someone close about it, make sure you feel supported and are honest with those that love you
basilfawlty89 · 31-35, M
First do this:
https://dangerousminds.net/comments/the_crab_revenge_kit
Then dump him.
https://dangerousminds.net/comments/the_crab_revenge_kit
Then dump him.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
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