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Advice? .........................FU SW TITLES............................

Sincerely....

I am super insecure about how I look in clothes.

This past weekend I bought a puffy winter coat. In preparation for 30 degree mornings, down to 0 degree ones coming soon.

To me the coat is perfect. So warm, puffy with down feathers, black in color, LONG sleeves, coat down to the knee...but comes out at the hip for shape...a tiny bit.

I love it....but I feel enormous when I wear it. I feel huge.

I feel like my all the employees (all 25) will laugh at me behind my back because I am so huge and obnoxious.

I am the only female at the small company.

These are my normal thoughts. I hate it. Men? Honest thoughts. Which woman have you made fun of? Turtle neck lady? vest lady?
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MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
I think clothes primary purpose is to be functional. I only wear what I feel is comfortable. I happen to like warm clothes, so I wear my leather boots and black wool coat all the way into summer. People continue to say "you look crazy wearing that when it's spring", but no, I'm perfectly comfortable and they're just oversensitive to fashion.
HellsBelle · F
@MartinTheFirst appreciate the answer but I feel it is a non-answer....
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@HellsBelle That doesn't sound very appreciative at all
HellsBelle · F
@MartinTheFirst Of course I appreciate an answer and attention to my post. But can I not disagree?
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@HellsBelle Well what can you take away from it?
HellsBelle · F
@MartinTheFirst "be yourself". Thank you for the sentiment.
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@HellsBelle you got it