Do people disappoint you more or is it you who do?

We can easily blame others for our miseries and for changing, but shouldn't we be in control of our own emotions and life? I know we're no saints or Gurus that say think than feel, but how do you do it? How bigger role does depression play in it? How do you become headstrong? Fvck wish I wasn't an idealist.

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SW-User

I believe it's a process. Of awakening to ourselves.
We blame outward when we believe in being victims.
We look inward when these interactions become a lesson for us to learn something more of ourselves.
That doesn't mean that we will always be perfectly in control. But it does mean we begin to have more compassion for others and ourselves too.