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Is a place being too far a good excuse to not go to an even? Especially on a weekday?

My friend invited me to a church event and she said it would mean a LOT to her if we came. The others can’t come but she asked me if I can go and she doesn’t wanna hear excuses since I’m on summer break. I told her I have summer class but I will have to see. She begged me to please just come. The place is like 30-40 minutes away from my house. And plus it’s gonna take me almost 2 hours to get over there. I don’t think she’s gonna buy that excuse. It’s gonna take me like probably an hour and a half to get there on the city bus. Plus where I live it’s gonna be pretty difficult since we live in a town. I checked and the first best will take me a whole hour and then when I take the second bus they don’t want take me 10 minutes. But I would have homework to work on anyway since I have a summer class. I have a morning class but still I don’t think I can go. My class is from 9am to 11:30am. The event starts at 5pm but I don’t know how long it will be. She is begging me to come. The other day I told her I would see but she kept saying “PLEASE!”.
I told her, “Well I’ll have to see because I don’t have anybody to take me and plus I have my class the next morning and there is no way I’m taking the bus there and back because it’s gonna take me almost 2 hours to get there.”
SW-User
If you can get the right amount of school work done if you go, then I'd say that the question is, how important is the friendship to you?
LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@SW-User I mean we don’t hang out much but I’ve known her since high school. I know Sheila sound like twice and we can’t completely trust her but we’re giving her one more chance. It depends how much I get done but for summer classes we have a lot of homework.
SW-User
@LaylaTheTallGirl yeah, all things considered, I agree, see if you get enough done for school...
SW-User
nah traveling is a waste of time and your grades are more important than a friend or some event lmao
LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@SW-User True but my friend is important too. Now if it was on a weekend that would’ve been fine. But I’m gonna have homework and I don’t even know if I’m gonna be able to make it. Plus Uber can be pricey.
SW-User
@LaylaTheTallGirl sorry but a true friend wont make you choose between socialising and your future
marciamom · F
Don't let her bully you into this. If she can't accept "I'd like to but I can't" as an answer, she's not much of a friend anyway
Lauren19 · 26-30, F
Nah, sounds crap.
Lauren19 · 26-30, F
@LaylaTheTallGirl You lost me at "church".
LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@Lauren19 She is having some baptism and she said I should come and NO excuses. I have a really good excuse not to go. Now if it was on the weekend that would’ve been better.
Lauren19 · 26-30, F
@LaylaTheTallGirl Sack it off. Live your life. People that insist on your presence for their decadent, nonsensical declarations of bullshit in front of an imaginary friend in the sky don't deserve you. The fact that you're questioning it means you smell a rat, to be fair.
Don't let anyone pressure you into doing something you don't want to do.
Lilnonames · F
Tell her the truth don't make up excuses either go which u might enjoy and will make u feel good or tell her no u don't feel like coming. Spend the night get awsy

 
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