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This girl still doesn’t like me. Even almost a year later. Should I just give up?

back in middle school there was this girl and she seemed to be one of the coolest girls we know. She told jokes, funny, very talented actress and very kind to her friends. I wanted to be friends with her but she always gave me dirty looks. When I said hi and was nice to her she coldly said hi. When I walk she ignores me, when I come in, she walks right out of the room. She looked disappointed and gives a frown when I see her. I think she’s scared of me because of my 5’11” 3/4 and large built frame. She is like under 5’0” and petite. I didn’t do nothing to her. She seemed so cool but she didn’t want anything to do with me. She prefers to hang with my two best friends but not me. She was having a party snd only invited my best friends but not me. I did NOTHING to her. I did a lot and she STILL didn’t like me. One of my teachers told me, “You listen to me very carefully. This is very important. Not everyone is going to like you. No matter how cool, sweet, awesome or even talented you are, you won’t be liked by everyone and they’re allowed to not like you no not obligated to like you or be your friend.”

I saw her last week. I was like, “Hey long time no see! How you been?” She just looked at me and just walked off. I asked her if I did something and she just ignored me and walked off. I am about to give up. I’m done.
eyeno · M
Just from the words you use, your a very caring, feeling person.

Your an adult now, just accept it maybe its for the best.
Your teacher was spot on in her answer to you.
The choice is yours.
LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@eyeno Thank you so kindly. Honestly, I’m just going to move on. I’m done. No matter what you do, not everyone’s going to like you.
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Your teacher is right
LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@Justafantasy When she first told me that I was hurt and not because of what she said, it was just because of that girl that chose to hang out with my best friends over me and she never included me. also the part that people don’t have to like you. Even though my best friends try to convince her to get me to come, she flat out said no and she only wanted them to come.

 
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