I need advice it’s urgent! My best friend is getting kicked out and she asked if we would let her live with us. I am not sure…

Just the fact that you are doubting your friend's credibility shows you the answer.

It is your dad's house - he has the last word and it should be respected - and that is not under your control, hence you cannot be blamed for it.

Help her find a community shelter or a place with cheap rent so that she will not have to be on the streets but will not have to be in your home either. You can help her in many ways even if you cannot shelter her.

The fact that your friend is pulling on your friendship feeling strings as of now foreshadows that she may guilt trip you for any future inconvenience or when you cannot meet her needs.. which is not cool at all.

If you really want to take her in and your dad agrees.. set a moving out date from the start and sign a legal contract with conditions that have to be met and consequences when these needs are not met. Aka if tenant did not find a job within x amount of days after signing the contract, tenant must leave. If tenant did not pay the rent on time, they cannot continue to rent the place.

Maybe decide on taking her in for exactly a time that you and your family agree.. 1,2,3 days..or a week tops? I have heard some people shelter friends for a cheaper price if they do all the housework.. that could be an idea.

Friendship is important but if you think your friend is irresponsable, she may drag you in a downward spiral of her choices.. both of you will suffer from it.

This is all my own viewpoint.. maybe I just don't trust people.. and that is why I think your doubt is reasonable.

Be kind to her but also careful and clear about your boundaries.

Are you seriously THIS stupid? How can somebody with no job pay rent? Well I normally say let her stay with you but after her getting kicked out and stuff I wouldn’t let her. Even if she’s your best friend you still don’t know that much about her. I can’t believe how I clueless and naive you are. This is a straight up said that to her. For my honest opinion, I don’t think you’re really are a best friend if you can’t be straightforward with her.

If she got kicked out by her own parents there's little chance your dad would want her around.

Well does she work maybe talk to your dad and make it a three month thing but she has to find work I mean as you see life is not free and you need rules . Or just leave it

She shouldn't put you in this bind. She is not your responsibility, and you live with your father. Her issue is not your issue, and she is trying to change that. Tell her you are sorry but your dad said no.

She has to make up with her parents. They will take her back in. Does she know that your sad says , No way? Your friend needs to know its your dads place. Not yours

Please keep us informed of the DISASTER that ensues when she moves in and can't pay the rent (or her share of the food or utilities.....)

Why is she getting kicked out? Maybe tell her to apologies,

How will she may rent if she goes to college.

No job but says she can pay but seems unable to pay for rent anywhere. True friends won't try to emotionally blackmail you. Run don't walk away from this one.