Is it rude that your friends wants to have a BBQ at your house?

I mean I understand we should hang out more but who said she was the boss?
My friends were discussing about our next hang out and she asked me if maybe my dad can let us have a BBQ or house party but don’t tell him she suggests it or he’ll think I’m a bad influence. She said she need to get me out of my comfort zone and get out more.
I’ll ask but he has to be at the house because sometimes he’ll go to his girlfriend’s house for the weekend. I understand we should get together more but she has no right to suggest to do shit at my house…..err my dads house.

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updown2020 · 61-69, M

Well their no problem asking if they could do something at your house but doing it behind his back is a bad idea and this is probably why your dad thinks she is a bad influence on you. At the end of the day you want you do make the difference do not do anything with out your dad's permission. You will have to deal with your dad afterword's not your friends.