Is it rude that your friends wants to have a BBQ at your house?

I mean I understand we should hang out more but who said she was the boss?
My friends were discussing about our next hang out and she asked me if maybe my dad can let us have a BBQ or house party but don’t tell him she suggests it or he’ll think I’m a bad influence. She said she need to get me out of my comfort zone and get out more.
I’ll ask but he has to be at the house because sometimes he’ll go to his girlfriend’s house for the weekend. I understand we should get together more but she has no right to suggest to do shit at my house…..err my dads house.