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Need a bit of advice

So my manager pulled me into the office and said ive been given a promotion. Im supervisor if my department now. I was stunned because i didnt see this coming. Im 5 months pregnant and i wanted to advance but wasnt expecting until after i returned from maternity leave.

I get along with the current supervisor really well so i asked whats happening to him, thinking hed transferred or something. She said shes demoting him to my current position. I asked why and she said his performance is horrible.

A lot of people are really upset at this. I pulled him aside and told hom im so sorry and i hope theres no riff between us as this is incredibly uncomfortable for me and i know it is for him aswell. He said he knows i have nothing to so with it and that she demoted him because she threw him under the bus and that i should be very careful with her. He also said if i dont feel ready to take on the position to let her know i dont want it.

The thing is i do want it but not like this. Theres now sides at work. So much drama, i dont know what to say and i feel like i shouldnt say anything. I feel thrown in the middle of a war.

Then my manager goes on vacation/holiday and leaves me in charge with minimum training. I have to ask the deputy manager for support and i know she isnt happy with my manager and how she went about demoting my supervisor. I feel like i dont want to be caught inbetween the drama.

What should i do?
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Fluffybull · F
Tell her you don't want the position. If you're not getting proper training and don't do well it will be an excuse for her to treat you in same way. Tbh, I'd keep current position til maternity leave, come back after ML but keep eye out for another job. This could all get messy 😨