Why do I still feel a connection with him?

He has blocked me on everything, cut ties with me, and moved on with someone else but I still get these bad feelings that something has happened to him and I become tempted to reach out to him by any means just to make sure he’s safe. I feel physically scared that he’s in danger

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Mindful · 56-60, F

Thinking of someone from the past is always safe. The past is a safe place, we know it.

Feelings that produce adrenaline, good or bad, cause memories that we like to revisit. That sweet memory is also comfortable.

What we don’t know is scarey we shy away from new relationships because we don’t know... and not knowing is scarey. (That’s why people are trapped at home, afraid of CoVid.— thats aother story)