How can I explain to my husband that I'm still grieving the death of my mother?

A week ago — and he doesn’t understand that you’re still grieving? In my mind something is wrong with him in that case.

Wow, he's not very sympathetic is he. My mother died a number of years ago and I'm still mourning her. One never gets over losing their mother. I hope he changes and shows you some compassion soon.

Wow I can't imagine. He could be lacking empathy, many do. Unfortunately you can't make him feel something he doesn't. It will only add to your stress. Be gentle and caring with yourself and try to find support and comfort from other sources.

I'm so sorry for the loss of your mother. 🤗

I think this is a test and he has failed badly.

I am very sorry for your loss, and what you are telling us here about your husband is terrible. [u]Terrible[/u].

I don't think there's anything that can make him understand. I think your husband is afraid of his own feelings. Please find a good friend who knows how to be with you through this. I know it's not the same as having someone there in person, but I know there are people here who care very much about you. Keep telling us about this. We're with you. ❤❤❤

you shouldnt have to explain

A week? I'm so very sorry!

I have had someone like this in my life before. It will never happen again. These people do not change. Take care of yourself and grieve in the manner that is best for you.... even if you have to block him out.
I'm so sorry for your loss. 💔

That’s extremely compassion lacking of him.. extremely

Has he ever lost a family member?

It isn't something you should have to explain to him. I think this is one of those great big red flags that should make you consider other options in life.

Sorry for your struggles. Seriously just take care of yourself and let it all out if he can’t handle it then it’s on him.

God Bless 🌹

He should know. You shouldn’t have to explain it because it’s been a week.

That shouldn't need explaining!

I'm not defending your husband. because being supportive is what he should be doing, but maybe he is still mourning the loss, and being a jag is how it is being manifested

Why explain anything ? Divorce this jerk - is this the type of man you are going to grow old with ?

Well, he should already be understanding.
I guess, just keep explain how much you are hurting and how his actions are hurting you.

Ask him how long he'd grieve if you cut his nuts off.
As he stands there looking scared and confused say, "Right. So shut the fuck up."

Please talk with other people - those who ARE available to you. There are so many people who care.

I'm so sorry for your loss.
Your husband is an insensitive jerk. I think you should plan to rid yourself of him.

[c=#359E00]talk to him. In the mean time you should try to overcome your feelings, you can't grieve forever too[/c]

Just one week? There's no doubt that you are still grieving. He should get that.