How do you stop someone from ruining someone's life and the people around them

Because this person has a crush on someone's boyfriend and tried breaking them up didn't work and because of her coursing trouble for him they are no longer friends she wants to destroy his live and course trouble for him and lives of others and getting your children involved to get them to there house and you have had to tell your children to stay away .how do you deal with and sort it out if other people are also involved getting info for that person and being so sly what can you do about it with no proof or evidence.

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ItsAllAboutLove · F

Looks like you're dealing with a narcissist. Don't give them any form of attention. Ignore them. Try to avoid this person as MUCH you can. This person needs to work on her own faults. People can do crazy things out of fear or pain that's not dealt with in a healthy way. This is something she needs to work out. I'd say leave it up to karma, and when things get REALLY bad like when someone is in life danger, then get the police involved, even when it's word against word! Someone needs to tell her to let go the things she can't get.. Like "face it, get over it. he chose someone else. there's still plenty of fish in the ocean. go swimming!"

Sallysales33 · 41-45, F

True I pretty much do that any way don't give any attention and avoid that person plus he does also but she tries to get her friends kids to hangout with Our kids friends to get info about him and talks about him all the time and even shares info with our kids that is not right .I have had to stop that also she has known him a long time from school and been obsessed with him for about 30 years he was with her year's back and was actually going to get with her again before he got with this other person. I get that you can really like some one I have been emotional and confused myself maybe said words I didn't mean when i have really liked someone but would never course trouble for that person and used others to get info and stuff but what you have said makes sense .