How do you stop someone from ruining someone's life and the people around them

Because this person has a crush on someone's boyfriend and tried breaking them up didn't work and because of her coursing trouble for him they are no longer friends she wants to destroy his live and course trouble for him and lives of others and getting your children involved to get them to there house and you have had to tell your children to stay away .how do you deal with and sort it out if other people are also involved getting info for that person and being so sly what can you do about it with no proof or evidence.

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Aprism · F

Become their best friend, that way it will divert nasty endeavours (if any). 🙂

Sallysales33 · 41-45, F

Keep your friends close and your enemies closer tried it was friends tried to keep piece she won't stop till she has him and we're all out of way.

Aprism · F

Why are you allowing it to get to you? 🙂

Sallysales33 · 41-45, F

It's not a question of allowing a certain person get to us it's that I believe it's getting out of hand and don't know how far she will go as a good friend of ours a person in their family died she got some one to make a fake account and pretend to be that person and said horrible things that is cruel this person is seriously demented and I believe she will go to far plus other thing's .

Aprism · F

Why are you threatened by her?

Sallysales33 · 41-45, F

No not actually not scared of her if that's what you mean she is so sly and believe some how she's so crazy someone will get hurt other people are giving us correct info about her and her next move is trying to get someone done for fraud and to report someones dad about a benefit she thinks he's not untitled to blame it on someone else and break family up thinking it was us when it was them .

Aprism · F

@Deftones1: Well, how did you allow this happen?

Sallysales33 · 41-45, F

This is what I am saying she's so sly no actual evidence how can I or we stop her.

Aprism · F

Show no interest and check the phone of your OH. Maybe he is having an affair and this is why she is behaving in a disturbed way. I think you need to delve deeper, but always remain calm, never rise to the bait. 🙂

Sallysales33 · 41-45, F

I don't know could be but no evidence and still really horrible to get others involved and to do that to someone else make out is was the family member on Facebook who died said nasty things that's sick to me and to report and try to be cruel to others is wrong she should just let it drop he is with that other person she should just walk away I am calm I would never lass out or use violence or get even or anything like that just wish she would just stop.

Aprism · F

I see no other option other than slamming a section 5 on her ass! 😳