Is it disrespectful for your significant other to stay in contact with someone they slept with?

Yeah. I've done it and I feel bad about it now. My bf was pissed. It was within our first few months together..didnt think he would really care, I wasnt sure about the level of commitment between us I guess so I wasnt taking things as seriously as I should have.

I certainly hope not.

Several of my ex squeezes are on my FB friends lists and we do comment on each others posts often. Of course...most of the time we are just telling each other how cute our/their grandkids are.

Given that... I myself, long ago lost all feelings of jealousy. The past is the past....I am only interested in the future.

However, I do respect my wife's feelings and never mention my ex-wifes name in her presence. And no, my ex-wife IS NOT and never will be a FB friend...not that I wish her any ill-will per-se, I just don't give a sh*t about her anymore... And the wife hates her so you know...…..

Extremely disrespectful if it's not a parenting thing.
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I'd leave her quick if that happened to me

Fuck that.

No

Very disrespectful. I would shut the door on them, without a second thought

that'd be alarm bells, likely lots of other "friends" as well.

I don't know if it's disrespectful but I also wouldn't be a huge fan

I think it's disrespectful

I do not think so.

Oh hell no

Yes

I don't know, but I would not be a fan.

If the boundary was set up as to not be crossed & they agreed to it. Otherwise it really depends on the individual relationship

Assuming the hookup was before a relationship I don't see a problem. Being able to trust my partner is, to me, one of the biggest foundations for a relationship. If I am unable to trust my partner, then the relationship is pretty much already heading for a crash.

If this was during the relationship and something that we agreed upon, chances are my partner wouldn't be my partner after that, so that situation wouldn't really be applicable.