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How can we learn to not feel lonely all the time and to appreciate our own compagny?

I feel like i always need to be with someone, otherwise i feel so weak and lonely. Do you have tips to avoid this feelings ?
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4meAndyou · F
Yes, but not that I would want you to try. I have had 3 husbands, one of them very abusive, and then I tried dating websites which provided me with half a lifetime of horror stories, and at the end of all that suffering I realized...my gosh! Being alone is great!!! I LOVE being alone! No suffering! And the only real abuse is what I get on this website.
Raven012 · 22-25, F
@4meAndyou I guess oneday i will also realize the benefits of being only with myself
4meAndyou · F
@Raven012 I used to feel like I would go insane if I couldn't find a date or some fun. My parents were paying for my apartment and they took me out of my shared apartment and put me in a little studio, alone. If you are in the USA try Meetup.com. It's a list of clubs in your local area, like photography, dinner clubs, hiking and biking and a lot more. If you are in the USA you can join a club for small money and at least get out of the house and be with people who are interested in the same things.
Raven012 · 22-25, F
@4meAndyou I am doing an exchange in Sweden, but i'll see what is available here, i did not think about joining a club. Thank you so much !
4meAndyou · F
@Raven012 Hiking or biking...hiking requires no equipment, and you will meet young, healthy people!
Raven012 · 22-25, F
@4meAndyou Yes sure x) ha ha and apparently the website works here too ! it is so great !
4meAndyou · F
@Raven012 You FOUND it???? SOOO awesome!!!
Raven012 · 22-25, F
@4meAndyou I know, right xD i was so surprised
4meAndyou · F
@Raven012 I'm doing a little dance in my chair! I hope you find something you like in there.
Raven012 · 22-25, F
@4meAndyou ha ha xD thank you