My friend told my crush I liked him, and I don't know why she's mad at me?

It was my first school dance. My friend (who's also a girl, we'll call her S) told my crush (we call him Spaghetti) that I liked him. Even though she promised she wouldn't. I got really mad but I didn't get the chance to talk to her about it. But she kept trash talking another one of my close friends. Then S got mad at me for no reason, I don't know what I did wrong?

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Picklebobble · 56-60, M

Sounds like your friend has trouble keeping things to herself !!

NatLo16 · 22-25, F

She used to not be like that, I don't want to blame it on her new friends though

Picklebobble · 56-60, M

But you are right to feel betrayed by her actions. Thoughtless though they may have been, rather than deliberately trying to stir it as we used to say.
What's the story on your crush ?
Have they made any contact with you ?

NatLo16 · 22-25, F

@Picklebobble: I just really like him. He's nice and I get really good vibes from him but I didn't want to confess because I was scared. He's kind of popular and I thought his friends would make fun of me. When he found out I heard from my friend that he had a light reaction and just seemed kind of surprised (she said his jaw dropped)

Picklebobble · 56-60, M

@NatLo16: Drop him a line on Facebook or whatever site you folks use these days.
Don't post on his wall. The world can see that !
Just say....sorry if 'S' caused any embarrassment. I said something in confidence that she then went and told you !
If you send it as a message only he can read it.

NatLo16 · 22-25, F

@Picklebobble: I'll try to do it tomorrow, it's really late right now, I can contact him on social media, but I'm wondering if it'll make it harder to face him in person