What do you do when you have made a new friend whom you like a lot but they suddenly stop talking to you and give no reason?

And when you ask what the deal is, they just ignore you.

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SW-User

Well, I would ignore them. I hate those people that use the silent treatment to abandon people for nothing and then expect them to know what they did??? What?! Are they ignorance?! We are human, we can't read the mind of each other. So don't expect others to have a psychic ability.

valobasa4ever · F

@SW-User Totally agreed. 👌

quitwhendone · M

@SW-User Yeah, I understand but I think maybe there is something important bothering this person. So I am going to give the benefit of the doubt, so to speak.

SW-User

@quitwhendone Well, everyone has a personal problem.

quitwhendone · M

@SW-User I think I am the problem and I want to correct the problem. I just don't know exactly what to correct.

SW-User

@quitwhendone If you ask them what is the mistake and they don't let you know, that means they also have a problem of their own.

quitwhendone · M

@SW-User Perhaps so but I would try to help my friend with their problem if I could.

SW-User

@quitwhendone And if they still don't let you know what is the main problem, the only thing you could do is apologize to them for your mistake even though you have no idea what it is. You don't have to speak out the name of a specific mistake that you think you have done to them; just apologize for whatever reason without telling them what you have done. Only they know your mistake, so the only thing you could do is apologize for the mistake that they think you have but won't tell you.

Hope this makes sense.

quitwhendone · M

@SW-User Yes, it does. Thank you. I appreciate your advice and thoughts.

SW-User

@quitwhendone You're welcome.