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What do you do when you have made a new friend whom you like a lot but they suddenly stop talking to you and give no reason?

And when you ask what the deal is, they just ignore you.
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SW-User
Well, I would ignore them. I hate those people that use the silent treatment to abandon people for nothing and then expect them to know what they did??? What?! Are they ignorance?! We are human, we can't read the mind of each other. So don't expect others to have a psychic ability.
SW-User
@quitwhendone And if they still don't let you know what is the main problem, the only thing you could do is apologize to them for your mistake even though you have no idea what it is. You don't have to speak out the name of a specific mistake that you think you have done to them; just apologize for whatever reason without telling them what you have done. Only they know your mistake, so the only thing you could do is apologize for the mistake that they think you have but won't tell you.

Hope this makes sense.
@SW-User Yes, it does. Thank you. I appreciate your advice and thoughts.
SW-User
@quitwhendone You're welcome.
SW-User
You have no choice but to move on. It happens.
@SW-User Yes, you are right. It just makes me sad.
Pfuzylogic · M
A lot of times people will ghost you on other social media from SW like kik or SnapChat.
I normally ask directly what is going on and I have as of yet to not have an answer returned.
@Pfuzylogic They've even hearted my posts but haven't returned my messages.
Pfuzylogic · M
@quitwhendone
It can be very hard to predict behavior from others.
@Pfuzylogic Very true. Thanks for your thoughts. I appreciate it.
SW-User
I find keeping friends on here really tricky. I keep finding people that are super chatty for a couple of days but after that they reply with singular closed sentences or just an emoji. Lots of people that I'm just having the "hi, how are you" daily conversation with, like I just met them on a bus!
@SW-User Well, this was long messages nightly and then totally silent. No responses to my messages at all. And no response when I asked if there was something wrong.
SW-User
@quitwhendone Very odd. It's been ages since I've had a long messages person.
SW-User
do you mean an instant online 'friend'?
@SW-User Well, call me silly but I am giving my friend more credit than that.
SW-User
@quitwhendone good luck
@SW-User Thank you. I appreciate that.
@MushroomFaerie You have a point. I shouldn't have said "hate." But you are right, I cannot control it. And I don't want to look crazy.
@quitwhendone its not nice at all, its a cruel thing to do which makes them even more unimportant
@MushroomFaerie I am not giving up on my friend just yet because I don't know what is going on in their mind.
Tanoos · 41-45, F
If there is no mistake with me...I d'nt care that friendship..because that's friendship is meaningless
@Tanoos Yeah, I understand but I think this person values our friendship. I could not have been that wrong about them.
@valobasa4ever I really doubt this person would talk about me. It's not their style at all.
@quitwhendone Okay then I'm so sorry for my comment.
@valobasa4ever No, no need to be sorry. I do realize what you are saying happens. I just can't see it with this person.
SW-User
@SW-User Yeah but I just wanted to know why. If I owe an apology, I will give an apology. And I also want to know what not to do in the future. I will try to look at it as a learning experience.
SW-User
I bet your friend likes you too and thinks you're a great person but you don't really know that.
TonyPajamas · 26-30
@TonyPajamas Nah, I am not a stalker...neither is Shaq.

 
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