I am confused about my sexuality
in Which category I should put myself in? Is it normal
31-35, M
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voodoo1970 · 51-55, M
Why do you need a category?
I accept that some people feel the need to apply a label to help them understand or come to terms with their sexuality, and that can be valid for them....but labels can also be restrictive. Sexuality does not have strictly define boundaries, and its rarely if ever black and white, and it's often quite fluid too. Just accept whatever you are comfortable with and say "yep, this is me, subject to change" and don't let others tell you what you are or aren't.
I accept that some people feel the need to apply a label to help them understand or come to terms with their sexuality, and that can be valid for them....but labels can also be restrictive. Sexuality does not have strictly define boundaries, and its rarely if ever black and white, and it's often quite fluid too. Just accept whatever you are comfortable with and say "yep, this is me, subject to change" and don't let others tell you what you are or aren't.
