Would you go for a really hot person with a dull personality or an unattractive person with an okay personality?

I'm stuck
One gives me attention from people /makes me popular but is lacking in interesting personality
The other is insecure but he really tries to talk
What would you do?

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th3r0n · 41-45, M

Neither.

I don't want a woman with a bad personality no matter how pretty, and a woman with a pleasant personality that's literally unattractive enough that her stripping down isn't arousing, there's no marriage potential so that's just a friend.

indyjoe · 56-60, M

@th3r0n Like you...I would not want a woman with a bad attitude, personality, and demeanor. However I have come to realize that a woman does not have to be a supermodel, a Playboy centerfold, glamorous movie star, etc. either. If she is a good, loving, and kind person...and if I am in love with her then any imperfections and flaws are not even noticeable and she is an absolute beauty and major turn-on.

th3r0n · 41-45, M

@indyjoe oh no, I didn't mean to say that I'm picky about looks, the crude and obvious way to state my looks requirement is that if she's naked it goes up not down

There doesn't have to be insane attraction, just some level of positive attraction vs repulsion

I wouldn't expect a woman to date me that gagged at the idea of seeing me naked, and I wouldn't go after a woman I saw that way either even if I really liked her personality