Would you go for a really hot person with a dull personality or an unattractive person with an okay personality?

I'm stuck
One gives me attention from people /makes me popular but is lacking in interesting personality
The other is insecure but he really tries to talk
What would you do?

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indyjoe · 56-60, M

I was never attracted to the "beautiful" and shallow types...I liked attractive and great personality types. I have seen people who I did not think were attractive at all (and some were just plain ugly), but they had wonderful personalities and demeanor about them...what it all comes down to is it all depends on what YOU find attractive or could find attractive, and what is most important to you. Just keep in mind that not all treasures come in ornate chests nor the best gifts always come in the prettiest packages.

RaemaSnr · 22-25, F

@indyjoe For me it seems to be the opposite I get attracted to the ones in pretty packaging. I should stop I guess? Just don't know how

indyjoe · 56-60, M

@RaemaSnr Attraction is not all about looks alone...many a good man or woman has been turned down, ignored, and rejected just because their looks didn't turn the other person on enough. I have learned that you'd be surprised how love and affection for a person will enhance (even change) the way they look to you. My lust and desire for my wife is increased by my love for her. She is not "ugly" and never was, but she is not perfect by any means and getting older has caused her body to change...but she still looks as "hot" to me as she did in the beginning.😉