I am a perfectionist / narcissist

I am a self-proclaimed perfectionist. I am extremely critical of myself and those around me. I believe it to be a result of low self-esteem and insecurity. I have narcissistic tendencies as well which I believe to be a result of the same thing. I know I behave in a way that can be seen as "unlikable" at times because of this. I'm simply looking for advice to stop overthinking and act with confidence!

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LadyGrace ·

That description doesn’t fit a narcissist.

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LadyGrace ·

Yes, but most narcissists don’t want to change. I’ve studied them thoroughly, since I have dealt with a couple. There is hope for you, and many more where this came from. This is free advice from a renowned, professional counselor. The top in the country.

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ferrariboy · 26-30, M

Thank you so much omg!! And I wouldn’t say I deal with full fledged narcissism- just tendencies. But I look forward to watching these videos lol thank you.@LadyGrace

LadyGrace ·

You’re so welcome. He also has a book out. I’ll have to look it up, but I’ve watched the anxiety video and have gotten instant relief. To find more, I’d just search him out on the web and maybe put in the search bar, “show all of Noah Elkrief’s self-help videos”. Then just pick out which ones apply to you.

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LadyGrace ·

Not sure if I sent this one.
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Allelse · 36-40, M

In other words you're a piece of shit with all the compassion of a kidney disease? Well its good to know these things upfront.

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Allelse · 36-40, M

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ferrariboy · 26-30, M

@Allelse Stop embarrassing yourself on here man.

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curiosi · 61-69, F

This book, better than any therapy you could ever pay for.
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ferrariboy · 26-30, M

@curiosi Thank you! I'll be sure to read it.

SimplyTracie · 26-30, F

Can you have a low self-esteem and be a narcissist at the same time?

curiosi · 61-69, F

@SimplyTracie Most all of us have narcissistic "tendencies", that doesn't mean we are a narcissist.

ferrariboy · 26-30, M

@SimplyTracie Narcissist tend to act extra self-loving to compensate how they're actually feeling- which is self-loathing.

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