Why do I have to keep on breathing? ??

I dunno, because of that statement, I understand why I have to keep breathing.😊

Because you're not alone in your suffering?

Nope. Because I realized that someone (Not you😅) is now fighting for their selves, just to.keep on breathing, while im complaining about my life. Why should I have to keep on breathing. Instead of complaining about life, I'll just live my life for the best, an life that I deserve. Even I'm just with myself.

Ahm, it depends on the people I'm with. 😁 thanks a lot. :)

The teenage years is a a time of transition. Teenagers usually transition from a child's body to an adult body, though they also transition from a child's brain to an adult brain. There will be times it isn't easy but keep on going.

What is significant about this time is that friendships with peers become more significant. Previously it was the relationships with parents that was the most significant. I don't know your situation very well, but I'll make a few recommendations anyway:
- try to enhance your relationships so that they serve you better, so that you feel more connected and understood.
- try to forge good relationships with your parents.
- ensure you keep a good friend network of girls your own age and keep socialising with them: in person and supplement that electronically (but don't let electronic comms dominate)
- if you can, find a girl that is 5-10 years older than you, that has worked out ok and you respect. See if they will be your mentor and confident when you need it.


Your parents may be busy and caught up in their own worlds. But try to converse with them, things like what happened to you during the day or ask about theirs. You may need to be in the kitchen with your mom while cooking, perhaps helping too. The important thing is that you converse about things. That way when you need them you will have an understanding about each other. I'd expect your parents to take the lead in that conversation, but they may be busy or unaware.

With your friends, you may need to practice self-disclosure. However, only with the friends that you can trust not to cause you grief. Try an internet search on that, self disclosure usually starts with small opinions that are exchanged. As the trust grows so do the disclosures. I find that such disclosures can transform a useless adult male conversation about nothing into something quite meaningful.

And if you continue to feel alone frequently, try to talk to your parents or mentor about it. Though, I'm here if you want to communicate too.

Thanks. :)

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