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I need advice.

My son is 17 and I would like some advice on supporting him. I believe he is Bi or gay but will not admit or wants to talk about it. I think it’s great but I want him to embrace it.
Any ideas??
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lubovont · 70-79, M Best Comment
It is a difficult thing to talk about and he probably just doesnt know how to say it, if in fact he is bi or gay. I imagine, for most, telling a parent would be the hardest. Most people I know can't talk to their parents about sexual things very comfortably. My experience was very different but I have talked to others and it seems pretty normal, especially if he has not yet moved out on his own and established his own life, that he would be cautious about what he tells you.

You could find an interesting gay novel and read it when he's around so that he sees you reading it and then tell him about what you're reading and express positive words about the gay experience. If your son hears you saying that gay love is a beautiful thing, he might feel freer to talk
Hopefulangel123 · 51-55, F
@lubovont Thank you so much. I just want him to be happy, feel loved and accepting of who his is. Thank you for your wonderful insight and suggestions.
lubovont · 70-79, M
I have been bi all my life. I'd be happy to talk further
Hopefulangel123 · 51-55, F
That would be wonderful. Thank you.
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Jennagurl · 46-50, T
@lubovont that's a great suggestion of breaking the ice of acceptance.