What are ways I can convince my bf that there are better outlets than weed ?

I know a lot of people find it not a big deal but I really hate that he does it. It used to be “oh only sometimes” to “only on weekends” to “oh when I hang with friends so some week days” to everyday even when I’m with him. I can’t take it but I really like him and that’s the only problem I have with him and idk how to fix it.

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Graylight · 51-55, F

Does he know how you feel? If not, tell him how uncomfortable it makes you. His habit merits a discussion If it threatens his relationship with you.

Then figure out what your bottom line is - what are you willing to allow within the relationship? If he can't respect that and respect you, then you need to be ready to tell him should he cross that line, the relationship is over.

What your boyfriend is doing may or may not be an addiction, but clearly it's a habit that's interfering with your happiness. Give him all the information, then be willing to make a decision and stand by it. Good luck.