What are ways I can convince my bf that there are better outlets than weed ?

I know a lot of people find it not a big deal but I really hate that he does it. It used to be “oh only sometimes” to “only on weekends” to “oh when I hang with friends so some week days” to everyday even when I’m with him. I can’t take it but I really like him and that’s the only problem I have with him and idk how to fix it.

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Fernie · F

I have smoked for decades and one thing I have learned is that when one person does not and one does in a relationship...it sucks for the one who doesn't.Unless the weed smoker is not a selfish jerk who chooses the weed over the partner. You can remind him how boring he is when he is stoned...that he pretty much leaves you alone when he is stoned. Whatever you say...you need to think about what you want in a person..how you want to be treated. What he is doing is selfish and childish. Please don't jump to his defense...that kind of behavior says a lot about him. You deserve better