Feeling trapped by my feelings and emotions

I feel so trapped by my feelings and emotions, sometimes so much that I am paralyzed to do what I want to do. I want to leave my marriage but I feel so guilty about doing it. I stay with my wife out of guilt not love. How can I stop this from happening and it controlling me?

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Wraithorn · 51-55, M

There is no easy way. Divorce will take a chunk out of you no matter what.
The truth is, when we make that contract of, "until death do us part" we actually have no idea what we are really agreeing to. Our logical minds are blinded by love and lust.
If you are not happy then you cannot make her happy.