What do you do

When your boyfriends flatmates (a boyfriend and girlfriend) boss him around, like tell him he needs to meet their friends etc. He just left my flat because the girl wanted him to say goodbye to her friend who was visiting. He was ignoring her texts at first but then she started messaging and calling me to tell me she's trying to get hold of my boyfriend (so that he can leave mine). I'm so upset that he's left.

Please don't tell me to break up with him, I love him. I just want him to realise.

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Indianboy · 31-35, M

I can understand your feelings..Break up is not a solution.. Your boyfriend is a real nice good chap.. But how come that girl has gained so much control over him??

Itsprincess · 22-25, F

@Indianboy exactly ! You know how it is. I don't know, everyone knows her for being 'bossy'. Her boyfriend is the same with him too.

Indianboy · 31-35, M

@Itsprincess Being bossy is always there with many girls! i myself have a gIRLfried who is like that..LOL!! But thing is she should not interfere in his personal life especially when he is away from house..

Itsprincess · 22-25, F

@Indianboy lol bossiness is the worst! And it's what I never want to do to him! That's what I'm thinking.. this ALWAYS happens with both His two flatmates

Indianboy · 31-35, M

That girl's boyfriend also obeys the girl?

Itsprincess · 22-25, F

@Indianboy I think so but I mean he's bossy too

Indianboy · 31-35, M

OK.. So your guy is one poor chap stuck in between.. Why don't you both stay together somewhere?

Itsprincess · 22-25, F

@Indianboy yeahh:/ we can't because I've already paid for my flat etc