What do you do

When your boyfriends flatmates (a boyfriend and girlfriend) boss him around, like tell him he needs to meet their friends etc. He just left my flat because the girl wanted him to say goodbye to her friend who was visiting. He was ignoring her texts at first but then she started messaging and calling me to tell me she's trying to get hold of my boyfriend (so that he can leave mine). I'm so upset that he's left.

Please don't tell me to break up with him, I love him. I just want him to realise.

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Indianboy · M

I can understand your feelings..Break up is not a solution.. Your boyfriend is a real nice good chap.. But how come that girl has gained so much control over him??

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Itsprincess · 26-30, F

@Indianboy I think so but I mean he's bossy too

Indianboy · M

OK.. So your guy is one poor chap stuck in between.. Why don't you both stay together somewhere?

Itsprincess · 26-30, F

@Indianboy yeahh:/ we can't because I've already paid for my flat etc

ozgirl512 · 26-30, F

Any relationship is based on mutual respect ... I think it's long past time to sit down and tell him your expectations ... Then break up with him ;)

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ozgirl512 · 26-30, F

@Itsprincess I'm thinking of him leaving to say goodbye to someone else ...

Itsprincess · 26-30, F

Ohh I see. Thanks x@ozgirl512

ozgirl512 · 26-30, F

@Itsprincess that's ok :)

benhailin · 41-45, M

He is just being too naive and being abused..

Itsprincess · 26-30, F

@benhailin you're right

benhailin · 41-45, M

probably this is the time he needs more of your support and break up should be the last thing in your mind :)..

Itsprincess · 26-30, F

Okay thank you ! @benhailin

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