Do you think it's wrong for a married woman to have a crush on someone, like a coworker?

@benfaltiger004 By meditating, or by choosing to turn one's attention to something else every time a distracting thought about the crush arises. By not looking at them or listening to them any more than is necessary for the sake of the job and politeness - or by transferring to a different department or job. Best of all, by fixing whatever is unsatisfactory in the marriage.

A crush starts with an instinctive and natural feeling of attraction - but it only grows from thoughts, by indulging in and cultivating the thoughts. It's actually a form of suffering, i.e. unfulfilled desire.