Any life coaches..single mom here day 5.

I was in a abusive marriage for 7 years with two young boys, 3 and 1. I currently do have a good job but I am going to have to downgrade to a smaller home. On Wednesday my husband was arrested. All of this was put on me. I need someone to hold my hand and walk me thru this. I'm sooo lost and depressed by this all. I am getting my taxes soon so money soon won't be an issue. Has any one been through this? What steps did u take?