I'm so devastated I was just released by my dom, and although I know the reason why (it was my fault) I am finding it difficult to cope without him. He suddenly disappeared and I can't move on. Any advice?
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I am sorry but I am not going to comfort you with kind words like everyone else.
There is a phase where you have to realize what you did wrong before moving on. You have to process your part. You can do so while being selfcompassionate of course.
I think the fact that this was online is the biggest flaw you need to consider. Strictly online emotional commitment and investments aren't worth it. You put too much of you for little in return..